I Confess...
I have been glued to Oprah's Lifeclass on OWN. I didn't think I would love it as much as I do. I am an Oprah fan, I know there are a lot of Oprah haters out there, but I have always had an affinity for her.
I was watching recently and a quote popped up that really resonated with me.
You Become What You Believe...you are worthy of happiness, love and peace. Believe it.
I Confess...
I typically don't have issues with my own self efficacy. Long time readers and friends of mine know this about me.
But lately, I have been doing a little too much self evaluating. All because I allowed someone to get in my head and make me wonder if I really am who I think I am. Do I see myself differently than the world sees me? Am I really the person THEY think I am?
The short answer is NO, I am not that person. Nor am I "mentally ill" as they described.
I Confess...
I realize now that all of that was just crazy talk. I cannot let a few ugly words from people who have no real value or purpose in my life to plant seeds of self loathing and self doubt.
I Confess...
To them I say,
"You won, but only for a minute, and I forgive you. I forgive you because everyone in life is fighting a great battle. I don't know what your's is but I choose to be kind to you. Because THAT is the person who I am. I am going to stop wondering why you said the things that you did, and why other's jumped on the 'she crazy' wagon I am just going to forgive you and forgive them and make grander forward motions, never looking back."
I Confess...
I feel better already. I knew that I would, eventually.
I Confess...
I am so truly blessed to have amazing friends in my life. Y'all have been wonderful, supportive and loving. Thank you for that.
Thank you for holding me up, for reminding me who I truly am and for not allowing me to lose sight of that.
I Confess...
I am worthy of happiness, love and peace.
And
I believe it.
Sooo what are you confessing this week? Grab a button, confess, and link that post up!
I promise, next week's confessions will not be so deep. I just had to type it all out and "let it go". Blogging is good therapy for me. Thanks for allowing me to "blog it all out" so I can really just move forward.
34 comments:
I saw a couple commercials on the new Rosie show coming out on OWN. I used to love Rosie but then she went a little kookoo. I'm wondering if I should really add another show to my mile long tv list LOL.
I love this!! I have had a crazy week dealing with adult women behaving badly, LOL, and this post was just perfect to put things into perspective. Thank you!
I've only got one word for ya boo! "WINNING!" Lol it's amazing what other people (idiots) can make you realize about yourself isn't it? Even when that's not what "they" set out to do! I'm glad that you're feeling better about yourself boo!
I'm not sure if you noticed or not but the linky thingy (can't think of what else to call it lol) isn't showing up. I was able to add my link but I can't see anyone else's!
Have a great weekend!
I am sorry you had to deal with drama this week. Unfortunately it is something we all must deal with way more often than we should have to. I am glad you are feeling better though!
I did share my recipe today! I hope you try it and enjoy!
The message of one of the books I'm reading now is all about how you are what you think. If you think positive, you will be. Vice versa.
I hate drama... its hard to hear negative things, but you have to remember if it really matters. Is that person worth renting space in your head with their issues?
Have a better week :)
So glad you are feeling better! Let them have their drama--bet they don't have much else. And look at all you've got!
Wonderful, supportive friends are the only kind you need in your life. Let the negative ones move along on they merry little way.
You always get so deep and insightful in your confessions and all I can think of is how my grandpa farts a whole lot.
I am an Oprah fan, too. Girlfriend makes me cry every dang time.
Awesome!! You are fabulous and the haters aren't worth your time or energy. So glad to hear you're not letting them drag you down any longer :)
I want to copy your forgiveness quote and send it to my Sister in law...Sometimes I think you know her and she is the one you are talking about ( LOL ). No seriously..I <3 that you are such an amazing person with a HUGE heart...because I struggle with forgiveness specially with her...you inspire me...
Kristin
Yes! Belief creates reality. Which is why I choose not to hold onto anger and grudges, though it's hard right now because I'm itching to kick the kiester of whoever insulted Mamarazzi! Grr!
(And you're awesome for being self-aware!)
I am not a big Oprah fan but to each her own. I am glad you have passed that moment you let those people in! Satan tries that very same thing. He makes us doubt who we are and whose we are! I am a daughter of the King of Kings. I am a Princess so take that evil one! Can't mess with that! Hugs!
I love the deep stuff, you know that! This post is right up my alley! I understand how people affect what we think of ourselves and I'm glad you didn't let it affect you for too long. We can hear it and grow from what is said to us. I think if everyone believed what they are told about themselves, none of us would be anywhere.
Keep believing you're fabulous and wonderful. Because you are!
I must say, I am one of those "Oprah haters" you mentioned, BUT I agree that you are worthy of happiness, love and peace. I'm glad you've decided not to let others get you down!
I'm going to check out Oprah's Life Class - I could so use some positive affirmation right about now.
I cannot believe somebody called you (or alluded) "mentally ill". Seriously. I don't get that AT ALL from knowing you through your blog. I thing you're an amazing woman and if anybody thinks you're mentally ill, THEY'RE the one who needs their head examined. OK..rant over.
In keeping with my Pinterest addiction ... I found an appropriate quote which I pinned to my 'Funny Stuff' board: "She's crazy! And, just when you think you've reached the bottom of her craziness, there is a crazy underground garage." LOL So, think of this when thinking about people who give you grief. It will make you laugh, I promise.
yes! you are. You are a giver of love.
I wish women would stop hurting other women just to make them feel better. I love Oprah too, but I haven't tuned in yet. I'll have to dvr it and check it out.
I love Oprah too!! She is awesome. Good for you for not letting what other people say bother you. I have the hardest time with that too, I am such an approval seeker :)
There will always be haters...thank goodness there will also always be friends!
I am one of those Oprah-haters!! :)
I really like that quote. :)
Happy Friday!
I'm glad you are able to forgive. I still want to kick some butt. LOL
xoxo Have a great weekend!
Sometimes it's hard to look past the negative people have towards you. Good for you! :)
That is a great quote and one that I needed to hear!
Am sorry to hear about the haters out there, you have an amazing attitude towards them!
Have a great weekend Mamarazzi!!!
It's true, you ARE worthy, and amazing.
I skipped confessing this week because I had a big emotional post to write out and I'm home sick because of my tooth being pulled.
I love Oprah and I big puffy heart you too!
Screw the haters, I say!
Have a great weekend! :)
I think you have an awesome attitude! Worrying about what others think only creates a burden for yourself, good job for letting that go... I know it's not easy.
Keep writing and being you, there are tons of followers that would be sad if you didn't.
This is a great post, and I love your attitude!
I'm fixing to try to throw a Confessional together now that I'm home from work and dinner has been eaten and dishes washed.
Awesome. Way to blog it all out! Hugs!
I linked up for the first time ever!
Great quote! I love Oprah, so many shows to watch so little time! Have a great week!
I am glad you were able to bring yourself to such a positive conclusion! I confess I need a dose of your positive thinking and forgiving ways! You go girl and I will try and follow your example :)
I am not a huge Oprah fan but I will give that from time to time she provide quips that hold real value....such as the one you shared!
Given enough time, our thoughts can become our realities, positive or negative.
Cheers to having a grand weekend celebrating the awesomeness that is you!
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