I have spent ALL week crafting and basking in the awesomeness of my family.
I am a very lucky girl.
My mom and I have laughed and crafted our fannies off.
Wait until you see all of the DARLING headbands and various hair pretties we have created.
Seriously CUTE stuff.
I Confess...
We are VERY close to having enough cute stuff to open our Etsy shop.
My mom, my sister's and I are working together to build an inventory before we list anything.
But we already have secured our shop name and cannot wait to start selling.
I Confess...
I came to Hollister to get my HAPPY back.
I had a few really hard, ugly, sad, and painful days before heading over the hill to be with my peeps.
This is EXACTLY what I needed.
I am a very lucky girl.
I Confess...
There are times in that I feel VERY misunderstood.
Not everyone "gets me".
Even people who I think are my friends can say things that make me wonder...
Am I am some sort of terrible person?
Do I really come across as they are describing?
Is there really that much room for interpretation in the written word?
I Confess...
I take things very personally.
I am always looking at myself and I am open to improve and grow as a person and friend.
So when someone, who I consider a friend, points out my flaws in a brutally honest way...
It can be painful and upsetting.
I don't care who you are, everyone wants the benefit of the doubt.
No one likes to feel misunderstood.
I Confess...
After a long week of self reflection I have come to a few conclusions.
I am not a bad person, I am well intended and I do try to give and flex for others.
I also realize that in the blogsphere these kind of misunderstandings MUST happen a lot.
After all, we are human AND we are hoping that the words we WRITE are "heard" and "received" in the spirit in which they are written.
That will not always be the case.
I Confess...
I am not the kind of friend who makes snap judgments or to jumps to quick conclusions.
I ALWAYS give my friends the benefit of the doubt.
We all have bad days...I try to keep that in mind.
I try to make sure I am understanding someone's intention behind their words.
If I am unsure I ask for clarification.
But I always, always, always...give my friends the benefit of the doubt.
I Confess...
I have amazing friends who have sent LOVE, email, texts and chocolate covered strawberries.
They never asked for details, they know I don't gossip.
They just offered love, friendship and understanding.
I am a very lucky girl.
I Confess...
I have the most amazing husband in the world.
Big Daddy extended his commute all week so I could be here with my family but not be without him.
I love, love, love this man who I am blessed to be married to.
He "gets me". He supports me. He loves me exactly how I need to be loved.
Big Daddy never calls me needy, but I admit when it comes to him I can be.
Yep, I am a very lucky girl.
57 comments:
Y'know, it takes a lot of strength to look at yourself and know you're okay ... I'm trying to learn that kind of confidence. But I'm going to! Thx for sharing and giving me another kick in the patootie to just go for it!
So glad you got to spend the week with your mama crafting. Definitely always go to your HAPPY place to make things better, everyone has thier own happy place & I think it is super cool that yours is with your folks (and BD of course :)
As far as all the other stuff I don't know what is going on but just know that I ♥ you!!!
Oh & I confess I am not doing confessions today because I am feeling overwhelemed this week with life & I do not want to open myself up for more comments to answer back to.
you are so refreshingly honest,,confessions are good for the soul,, you are a good soul..speaking from your heart isn't easy but you do it was elegance,,
You are a wonderful person who spreads joy throughout blog land and I'm sure in your great little family!
I've come to learn there is always SOMEone or SOMEthing to try and knock us down when we are thriving!
Do not let anyone take away that pretty smile!!
Hugs to you and I can't wait to see your Etsy shop, should be fantastic!
*hugs* Hang tight! We all love you!
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OH yeah! Yay for starting an Etsy store. Wanna give us a hint on the name of your store? *wiggles eyebrows*
TGIF - I don't know about you but I am certainly glad this (work) week is coming to and end.
Crafting is the best therapy!
I sometimes feel misunderstood and it can sure mess with your head. Sorry you were having to deal with that junk, but glad that you have other wonderful friends to fall back on. And such a supportive husband--that is the best!
I know you shouldn't gossip but sometimes it makes you feel better! LOL especially if you have someone you trust and can confide in like your big daddy! I love that I can gossip with my husband....and express my true feelings on everything and most of the time he's thinking the same thing! I hope you know that you have more friends than you think....like me! Even though we don't know each other, I like to think of myself as a good friend and a listener! If you ever need! The world is full of different people, with different upbringing....it's hard to understand each other sometimes unfortunately until we walk a mile in each other's shoes we won't! LOL when did I turn into Ghandi? I'm going to quit while I'm ahead before giving unwarranted counsel , WHICH I HATE BTW! I love you...
Girl, I'm so sorry that things go rough for you. So glad that you can spend time with family when you need a little bit to heal. Hope this coming week goes better.
I can't wait to see your hair pretties!
I am glad you got your happy back :) I am so sorry for whatever has happened to get you down.
They say, "Don't sweat the small stuff" and "It's all small stuff!" I have no idea what's happened, but I can tell it's bothering you, I'm the same way.
Yay for a week of crafting and family. And you have a great hubby! You ARE one lucky gal!
Let me know when you open your Etsy shop. I know you will! I've seen your cute headbands. Your shop will do very well, I'm sure. Now go have a great weekend!
I linked up :)
Bravo! Sometimes the truth hurts, but it's usually better to know. The hardest thing to do (in my opinion) is to take a good hard look at yourself. I can't wait to see your Etsy shop - I admire and respect people who create their own things and have the guts to present it to the world. You have an awesome hubby - my hubs could learn a thing or two from him. And we could probably learn a thing or two from you! Happy weekend. :) Thanks for hosting...again!
Wow, I just noticed you've had almost a million visitors! WooHoo!
I know I'm super sensitive when it comes to anything written or spoken. It's like I can't NOT take things personally and get hurt.
So sorry you had to get away, but man is it awesome that you have a place to get away to and people who love you SO MUCH!!
xoxo
I look forward to seeing your crafts and the opening of your Etsy store.
I love your honesty in your Friday Confessionals. You sound like a really down to earth kind of person. People should just like you for who you are♥
You are a lucky girl--you have great friends, and a wonderful hubby who supports you no matter what. That kind of support is hard to come by, I know you cherish it.
Dare I say that PINK will be in the pallet of color in your Etsy store? Can't wait to see the items~!
Love the confessions. -- so genuine.
Just tell me who pissed you off...I've got your back!
I love Hollister...now you've tempted me into spending more money this week. If my husband disowns me, I hope you have a guest room. ;)
First time playing along..thanks for hosting, lovey!
LOVE that things are better. What can't be cured by a little mom time! I spent all day Wednesday with my mom and it definitely helped my case of the 'who gives a shits'.
Sounds like you have had a ton of fun crafty and getting things ready to open shop! Can't wait!
It's hard to know how your words will be taken. I always give people the benefit of the doubt as well. I hate when something I say or write is taken in a way that I never intended it. So sorry that it has happened to you!
Glad you got some happy back :)
I think the fear of being misunderstood is why I tend to overuse the smiley while commenting.
So excited to see your shop! I love crafting with my mom and wish she was close enough that we could craft together.
I hope this week is better for you.
Sorry you've had some bad days. I don't really know you but, based on how kind you've been to me, I know you are a good person. I have two truths that help me deal with life's misunderstandings: First, don't take things too personally. Its usually more about them than it is about you. And second, intent is everything. Sometimes things just come out wrong. I always try to figure out what the intent was and I try to approach situations with positive intent on my side. I am happy you have such a loving support group when things are rocky. Have a wonderful day.
This is my first time to enter y'alls link-up and I love it! Thanks for hosting and I can't wait to do more!
I'm glad you had some crafting time with your momma. Sometimes being with your peeps in your happy place is all you need to get out of a funk. Sometimes it requires a date with the Captain. ;)
Hope you have a great weekend!
OH LOVE...I am so sorry you had a rough week. I hope that whatever has occurred has been sorted out and you are feeling better!
I am glad that you have family that is so great and so close to you...
HUGS and big love!
That is SO cool that you're starting your own Etsy shop!!!! I'm envious!!
So sorry to hear about the misunderstanding with the friend. It's never a comfortable place to be, especially when you're feeling misunderstood.
Yes, you are very lucky to have Big Daddy. Just as I am very lucky to have my equivalant of him in my Hubby. There is nothing quite like a partner who "gets you"!
I take things very personally too. And if I upset someone, I am sick over it because I know how upset I get when I have been hurt. And I agree with Emmy about the smiley faces. It's true.
Good luck with your etsy shop. I look forward to seeing what all you are offering.
It must be the month of misunderstandings. I feel you. Not fun or cool what you have been going through. I've had to do that too in the last few weeks.
I can't wait for your Etsy shop! It's gonna be awesome!
I hope you can get back to your normal self and feel great. {{{HUGS}}}
Yay for good bloggy friend!
And yes, it's very hard to list something in text form and have everyone take it as you meant it. Even friends IRL may misunderstand the meaning behind certain written things.
♥ you!
when you said hollister - I was totally thinking the store and was confused. but then i got it. lol.
i'm sorry about whatever happened - i'm still really behind on reading posts but it sounds like you are in a better place now.
I came to Hollister to get my HAPPY back.
That I can understand! I feel the same way about visiting home. I'm glad you had a good time and recharged those batteries!
Well, I, love reading your blog! You're honest, straightforward and FUN!!! I love the link-parties you're so creative with too! I can't wait to see what craftines you and your Mama got up to this week...picture please? (wow, talk about needy, that would be ME lol...demanding pictures!). I've been lazy and busy, but not too busy to blog-stalk my faves, including you...just too lazy to always comment! :) Have a great weekend!
First of all I can't wait to see your Etsy shop. How cool that you're so creative. :-)
Second, I know I am just getting to know you on your blog but you seem like such a sweet and generous person and I love your honesty. Don't ever change! I'm glad you know who you are and recognize that you are not a bad person. It really does suck to be misunderstood. I'm so glad you have such a great Husband who is there for you. I hope you have a great weekend girl, you deserve it!
I think this is a wonderful idea, I saw it on my friend Janna's blog and I'm tagging along. Thanks so much!
I love this!
Thank you!
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LOVE this hop, just found it today!
Definitely had to link up with this also!
I love the Friday Confessional. Hope all is well.
Can't wait to see you etsy shop when it opens.
53 links and only 39 comments. Strange??
I love you. That is all.
I'm excited for your Etsy shop!!!
I'm so sorry you're going through a rough time. One of the hardest things is feeling misunderstood, or judged by others.
I'm glad you got to spend time with your family, and get some "happy" back.
I hope you are able to work things out in the friendship area, and that you won't be feeling sad anymore.
I can not WAIT come get my craft on with you girls. save some fun for me! (like we evah run out!)
I feel I am misunderstood 99% of the time even though I am normally brutally honest about everything. I always wonder what exactly is there to misunderstand?? lol!
I'm linking up with you today and am also your newest follower!
Given our culture and language, SO much of communication is in gestures and inflection....so yeah, the written word can be misleading. However, I think you're right that we should all be open to interpret and be flexible on those words, and base our assumptions about a blogger on the PATTERN of their words and posts, not on one thing alone.
For instance, I love that you're opinionated and outspoken, because I hide that part of myself. And I know you're not a bitch because your posts include honesty, self-depricating humor, generosity, and creativity. I did cry in response to something you said once, but that was 100% to do with ME, and not you. I know you're not mean. :)
I feel for you! Thanks for your honesty and realness! It really is refreshing!
Jealous that you got a whole week to get your craft on! I get 12 hours next weekend and I can't wait...although, my in-laws are taking Miss Kinzie overnight for the first time, so I'm a little worried.
It can take time to get HAPPY back...don't rush it! (Learned that the hard way! More than once!)
i have spent the better part of the week crafting too, making hair pretties too!!
I am glad you were able to spend the week with family and still have your big daddy with you.
Thanks for sharing
Glad you got to spend some quality time with your family! Nothing better, in my opinion.
You seem like an awesome woman and I hope whatever was said was just a mistake. Take care!
I can't WAIT to see your etsy store! I'm sure whatever you design will be so stinkin' cute because you're one of those "crafty" people that I love to hate (but I can't hate because I kinda like you now).
I hope you find your happy and come back to us soon. We miss seeing your comments!
Loooooooooooooooove this!!!!!
And congrats on being close to opening your etsy shop - opening the shop takes sooo much time, but once it's open, it's super easy to maintain! :) It took me years of 'thinking' and when I finally jumped in, it was so fun! :)
Good luck!
Erin
Self reflection is always a good thing. Sometimes you learn new things about yourself and sometimes you see that you knew yourself all along. :)
I am excited to see your Etsy store. I bet your stuff will be fab!
You are a very lucky lady! Sounds like you're very blessed with an amazing family :)
Happy Friday
I'm sure your Etsy shop is going to make me wish my girls were young again more than I already do. Congrats!
You are correct, emails and texts are easily misunderstood. I've been on both ends, interpreting an email not how it was intended, and sending one that I thought would be received the complete opposite that it was. The lesson to be learned here is that two people can read the exact same thing and take away two completely different interpretations!
Enjoy your time away!
I participated for the first time this week! Thanks for hosting!
I would never judge your confessions, but I will say this (and I feel comfortable saying this because it comes from a place of experience,) but you must not take anything personally. My motto: Not your issue. Usually when people say or do something that we find hurtful, it has little to do with us (me/you). I promise to climb off my soap box, just try to remember this next time you feel attacked in some way: not your issue darling!
Sending you all the love and hugs in the world!
I just came across your blog, and love it! Love this list of confessions!!! Check out my blog if you'd like,
www.melstevens1.blogpsot.com
So sorry that you're having a tough time.
So glad you got to be with family! Congratulations on the Etsy shop!!
Sorry to hear about the 'friend' mishap. I hope your spirits are lifted since this with all the time you've spent with your fam in Hollister.
I'm misunderstood more often than not w/people in person...can't imagine what it will be like when I get 'brutal honesty' through the blog.
Have a wonderful Sunday. :)
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