Monday, May 26, 2008

Family Time

I know y'all hear me talk about how much i value family time, a lot. But this weekend, that I pretty much spent alone, I really realized how much I VALUE that time we spend as a family. Jordan was gone for the long weekend and Paul worked back to back shifts, so the only time he was home he spent sleeping. It was kinda gloomy and raining off and on for most of the weekend and I filled my time with organizing, cleaning, putting together teacher gifts and invites for Jordan's Summer kick off Popsicle and Pool Party and doing laundry. It was good to get these things accomplished since we have a few busy weeks coming up with the end of school, getting ready for Girls Camp and family coming to see us. But I gotta tell ya, sitting down at the dinner table with my family to enjoy a meal and then following our meal with quality time playing games is something i REALLY miss on weekends like this. The house is WAY too quiet. But it is THAT time of the day when I actually felt lonely and a little sad.

I know J is getting older and it probably won't be long before she has to run off for extra curricular activities and friend time after dinner and game nights will be few and far between (notice i did not say non existent, cuz, like, that will never happen...denial? maybe). So I am going to really treasure this time. Those of you with little ones; this is a great time to establish Family Dinner and Game Time. It is a wonderful tradition and I highly recommend it. Our best conversations and laughs happen around our dinner table and memories that will last a lifetime. I also firmly believe it has brought us closer together as a family and Jordan comes to US when there is junk going on in her life that she wants to talk about, that is special.

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Shar said...

I love that you guys play games after dinner. I love games! My husband, however, does not. It's like trying to pull teeth out of a grizzly bear to get him to play.

But what a great tradition and great time for talking as a family!

Crazymamaof6 said...

gotta love family time! we haven't done family game time at the table ever. the chaos of just eating together is enough to push me over the edge some days. but it will be fun someday. bummer on the lonely weekend! but you used your time wisely! you are one productive lady! good for you! way to go planning ahead!

Jen said...

I'm so sorry you had a lonely weekend. Good for you in being productive. I probably would've sat around watching tv and/or blogging and eating bon bons! I really love your tradition of dinner and games. I would really love to implement this into our routine once my kids are old enough to play games and my hubby doesn't work retail (hopefully ONE DAY!) :)

Queen of the Mayhem said...

I agree that sitting down to dinner....as a family....is very important. It is just so hard to do....what with chasing the kids all around the town!

I will get better at it this summer.....so help me! :)

Kelly said...

Sound like a very special time. I loooove dinner and game time but my hubby is not a game kind of guy. Maybe I can get the girls interested though as they get older!?!

shay said...

Oh game night is a great idea!

And how wonderful to have a day to reflect and spend some time organizing!

Leslie said...

Oh what I would give to have a weekend by myself. I know after a few hours I would be sad but it sounds so nice.

I look forward to the day whe we can sit down with all the kids and play a game by the real rules. And play with out interuptions that come with young children and there short attention spans.

But it is a tradition that I would like to make especially on Sunday.

Steph said...

We eat dinner together every night. That might be easy now because they are little, but I know it wont be that way forever. Plus, by the time I get to sit down after getting food for everyone, cutting it, etc...Everyone is ready to get up and go!
Game night sounds like fun, and it may keep my kids at the table longer!
How often do you do it?
Sorry your weekend was gloomy. :(
Glad you got some things done though!

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Peapodsquadmom said...

Research has shown that kids whose families eat dinner and do family activities together are much less likely to abuse alcohol/drugs/etc. They're also less likely to get into other kinds of trouble. I agree that it's among the best ways to stay connected as a family. You are so blessed to have such a close family. Enjoy!

An Ordinary Mom said...

We especially love Family Game Time in our house. Lately we have been having it every night.

SuperCoolMom said...

Even when she gets older and busy with her own events, she'll still take the time to talk to you because you've established that friendship now. B & I stayed up way late the other night having a great heart to heart! It's so nice when they become friends with you.

Debbie Yost said...

I agree with the value of family time and family dinners, however, once in a while, it is nice to have a day or weekend to myself to just veg out or go shopping or have a quiet dinner without someone grabbing at my plate or asking for something everytime I sit down to eat (like A Christmas Story's mom). I start missing my family after a day, but I do enjoy having time to myself to recharge. Take advantage of them when you get them.

Kellan said...

We had a lot of good family time this weekend and it made me think about how I am going to miss my kids when they are gone - I sometimes think I won't be able to survive without them around, ya know!

Have a good evening - Kellan

Merrianne & Spencer Call said...

aaw..that is great! I can tell you are a great momma with a HUGE heart! AWESOME!!!

Pam said...

Amen! I hope my kids come to me when they are older- I want them to feel they can tell me anything.

Dana said...

I think traditions ARE the best and they really do keep a family together...

I am so happy for you - you seem so happy and have such a GREAT family..

Sniz said...

I am the same way, HolleeAnn. I LOVE family time. I like to be alone sometimes, but not for long. I keep wondering what I'm going to feel like when the kids are out of the house.
Oh, and we have family dinner time pretty regularly (at least when it's not baseball and softball season! LOL!) But as you know, we don't play family games too much...it causes our family a lot of stress! I'm jealous of your giggling, fun, family game times!

forgetfulone said...

We have family dinner about 3 times a week. I'm thankful we have that much time with everyone running this way and that. We used to have family movie night, but alas, the kids are rarely here all at the same time on Friday nights anymore.

 
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